Katy & Brian
are getting married!

Ineffable Cà Phê
3920 Penn Ave
Pittsburgh, PA 15224

Photos of Brian and Katy in a grid

Timeline

If you'll be in town Friday evening or Sunday morning, we'd love to see you more!

Parking

We encourage using rideshares, public transit, walking, or biking. If you’re driving, you’ll be stuck with street parking.

There’s usually ample parking on Penn Ave outside the venue, or on some of the side streets, particularly 39th Street headed down the hill towards Lawrenceville.

Attire

We suggest casual nice clothes, but really, wear what you feel good in. (Bonus points for fun colors though!) This is not a formal event. No need to wear a tie, suit jacket, or heels unless you want to. We’re not fussed about your clothes!

You’ll likely want to bring layers. The venue has lots of outdoor space and big roll-up doors that we hope to leave open.

RSVP

Use the link below to RSVP at your convenience, but please before August 23, 2025.

Already RSVPed and had your plans change? You should be able to edit your responses using the same link below, or just text Brian or Katy.

RSVP

Healthy Event Logistics

We love you all and hope to see you, but please prioritize your health and the safety of our community by staying home if you feel unwell or test positive for Covid (or whatever else happens to be going around). Our logistics are flexible, so last-minute cancellations aren’t a problem.

We hope to have our ceremony outdoors and leave the large doors open to improve airflow throughout the venue, but there’s always a chance severe weather thwarts our plans. If we have to close the doors there will likely be 50ish people within a smallish cafe. We support anyone who wants to wear a mask during any or all of the celebrations.

Gifts

In lieu of gifts, we’re building a recipe book based on foods and meals from all our loved ones.

We’d love to hear about a dish or meal that brings you joy and why, so we can make it and think of you in years to come. (Note: This form requires a Google account; if you'd prefer, you can email us recipes instead!)

Share Your Recipe(s)

We have all the things we need in this world. The best gift you can give us is your time, whether that’s time to attend our wedding, or the time to write us some context to go along with your recipes!

If you really want to spend money on something, please consider a donation in our honor to one of these local organizations that we love: